
It’s not difficult to make a woman happy. A guy only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a phsiotherapist
15. a gynaecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes
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HOW TO MAKE A GUY HAPPY

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A new study shows mindfulness meditation training changes brain structure in eight weeks
Participating in an 8-week mindfulness meditation programme appears to make measurable changes in brain regions associated with memory, sense of self, empathy and stress. In a study that will appear in the January 30 issue of Psychiatry Research: Neuroimaging, a team led by Massachusetts General Hospital (MGH) researchers report the results of their study, the first to document meditation-produced changes over time in the brain’s grey matter.
“Although the practice of meditation is associated with a sense of peacefulness and physical relaxation, practitioners have long claimed that meditation also provides cognitive and psychological benefits that persist throughout the day,” says Sara Lazar, PhD, of the MGH Psychiatric Neuroimaging Research Program, the study’s senior author. “This study demonstrates that changes in brain structure may underlie some of these reported improvements and that people are not just feeling better because they are spending time relaxing.”
Previous studies from Lazar’s group and others found structural differences between the brains of experienced meditation practitioners and individuals with no history of meditation, observing thickening of the cerebral cortex in areas associated with attention and emotional integration. But those investigations could not document that those differences were actually produced by meditation.
For the current study, MR images were take of the brain structure of 16 study participants two weeks before and after they took part in the 8-week Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) Program at the University of Massachusetts Center for Mindfulness. In addition to weekly meetings that included practice of mindfulness meditation – which focuses on nonjudgmental awareness of sensations, feelings and state of mind – participants received audio recordings for guided meditation practice and were asked to keep track of how much time they practiced each day. A set of MR brain images were also taken of a control group of non-meditators over a similar time interval.
Meditation group participants reported spending an average of 27 minutes each day practicing mindfulness exercises, and their responses to a mindfulness questionnaire indicated significant improvements compared with pre-participation responses. The analysis of MR images, which focused on areas where meditation-associated differences were seen in earlier studies, found increased grey-matter density in the hippocampus, known to be important for learning and memory, and in structures associated with self-awareness, compassion and introspection. Participant-reported reductions in stress also were correlated with decreased grey-matter density in the amygdala, which is known to play an important role in anxiety and stress. Although no change was seen in a self-awareness-associated structure called the insula, which had been identified in earlier studies, the authors suggest that longer-term meditation practice might be needed to produce changes in that area. None of these changes were seen in the control group, indicating that they had not resulted merely from the passage of time.
“It is fascinating to see the brain’s plasticity and that, by practicing meditation, we can play an active role in changing the brain and can increase our well-being and quality of life.” says Britta Hölzel, PhD, first author of the paper and a research fellow at MGH and Giessen University in Germany. “Other studies in different patient populations have shown that meditation can make significant improvements in a variety of symptoms, and we are now investigating the underlying mechanisms in the brain that facilitate this change.”
Amishi Jha, PhD, a University of Miami neuroscientist who investigates mindfulness-training’s effects on individuals in high-stress situations, says, “These results shed light on the mechanisms of action of mindfulness-based training. They demonstrate that the first-person experience of stress can not only be reduced with an 8-week mindfulness training programme but that this experiential change corresponds with structural changes in the amydala, a finding that opens doors to many possibilities for further research on MBSR’s potential to protect against stress-related disorders, such as post-traumatic stress disorder.” Jha was not one of the study investigators.
Source: India Syndicate based on release from Massachusetts General Hospital
The best cure for a hangover is a cup of coffee and an aspirin.
Scientists have confirmed that the traditional morning-after boost is better than modern alternatives like organic honey, or a raw egg, reports express.co.uk.
The caffeine in coffee and anti-inflammatory ingredients of aspirin combat the alcohol, said Philadelphia researcher Michael Oshinsky.
He discovered this by inducing headaches in rats using small amounts of ethanol or pure alcohol.
The animals then had doses of caffeine and anti-inflammatories which cleared the pain.
“None of the commonly cited cures for hangovers could have caused this response,” said Oshinsky.
Source: IANS
A dermatologist has offered tips on how you should take care of your hair.
Dermatologist Zoe D. Draelos, MD, FAAD, consulting professor at Duke University School of Medicine, Durham, N.C., discussed the most common sources of hair damage and tips to reverse damage and maintain healthy, lustrous hair.
“One of the most common misconceptions about hair is that it is alive, when in fact hair is nonliving and does not heal itself once it is injured,” Dr. Draelos said.
“For this reason, once the hair is damaged it cannot heal itself except through new hair growth at the scalp.
“Women need to understand that the very things that they do to hair to make it appear beautiful, such as using hair dyes, perms and products that straighten the hair, will eventually end up damaging the hair’s structure and ultimately affect its appearance,” she stated.
To keep healthy hair looking its best, Dr. Draelos provided the following tips:
1. The less you do to your hair, the better. Avoid over-styling or processing hair.
2. Be sure to wash the scalp, which is where the oil is, and then let shampoo run through the hair. Shampoo is meant to clean the scalp primarily and can damage the hair if overused.
3. Let how oily your scalp is, determine how often you wash your hair. If your scalp is oily, wash hair more frequently than if the scalp was drier.
4. Conditioner should be used on the ends of the hair, not on the scalp, for best results.
5. Pick a shampoo and conditioner based on your hair shape, such as curly or straight, and your hair condition, such as damaged, fine, or frizzy. These products don’t need to be expensive to work well for your hair.
6. Wear a hat to protect hair from ultraviolet (UV) radiation.
Source: ANI
It’s time to fight the winter wrath on our hair and have gorgeous tresses this season!
Winter in your city may or may not require a jacket for your body, but your hair needs a protective cover. Lack of moisture during winter is our biggest enemy for our hair – it leads to dry hair, which tends to break easily. Low humidity also makes hair very frizzy and unmanageable. A perfect set of tresses have the potential to look like total disaster once winter approaches.
With the winter season setting in Anushka has some hair care tips to share for all her readers:
- Pamper your hair – Moisturising your hair during winters is as important as moisturising your skin. A hot coconut oil massage two to three times a week before a complete wash helps hair regain the moisture.
- Use natural products that give you nourishment and condition your hair – Use of chemicals during winters will only add to your trouble. It’s a great time to go herbal. A mixture of egg and warm coconut oil gives hair the deep conditioning it requires during the winters. Your goal is to make your hair as healthy (and therefore gorgeous) as possible.
- Manage without Technology – Avoid using the damaging blow dryers/hair curlers to manage your hair. With regular hot coconut oil massage, your hair will regain the moisture and manageability for any hairstyle you choose to flaunt in the winter.
- Care for your hair from the inside and outside – Drink at least eight glasses of water a day to keep hydrated. Eat more fresh fruits and vegetables to improve the overall health of your hair. Avoid foods that contain too much oil, as these may make your hair oily.
- Be judicious in your use of styling – Opt for products that are composed of natural ingredients rather than going for the chemically driven ones.
According to hair-care expert Dr. Rashmi Shetty, “A hot coconut oil massage lubricates the scalp and prevents it from drying and flaking. The massage improves blood circulation which in turn helps in making the hair shaft and roots stronger. Going herbal during winter like Anushka suggests is the perfect way to fight the winter hair. Herbs like Rosemary and Thyme add not only fragrance but also make hair healthy and improve shine.”
Quotes from Anushka on Oiling:
- I avoid washing my hair without oiling them and keep it for at least an hour before shampooing. Nothing works better than a good hot coconut oil massage that keeps the scalp and hair strong and healthy. For my skin I make sure I drink a lot of water and juices. Also I follow my daily skin care routine.
- My shampoos and conditioners have always changed but one thing that never changes is my coconut hair oil. I keep oiling my hair in all the season; this helps me provide necessary moisture to my hair. Oiling should be an extremely important part of every woman’s hair care regime. A good-quality coconut hair oil provides nourishment to ones hair. Nourishment is essential for healthy, strong and beautiful hair. Coconut oil increases the blood circulation in the scalp, ensuring that the hair is healthy and high on moisture content. Regular use of coconut oil forms a coat on hair & prevents moisture from escaping. Coconut oil helps cut down the static charges of flyaway hair, softens my hair and restores its sheen.
Source: Perfect Relations
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